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Why Boundaries Feel So Hard (Even When You Know You Need Them).
Knowing your boundaries isn’t the hard part. Holding them is. This piece looks at why saying no can feel risky, guilt-inducing, and emotion
Declan Fitzpatrick
Jan 183 min read


Surviving Christmas With Family.
Christmas has a way of pulling us back
into roles we thought we’d outgrown.
Declan Fitzpatrick
Dec 23, 20252 min read


Addiction Isn’t About Willpower: How Shame Keeps You Stuck.
Shame keeps people trapped in addiction. This post explains why willpower isn’t the answer—and what truly supports recovery.
Declan Fitzpatrick
Nov 25, 20253 min read


Sex Addiction and Intimacy Avoidance.
The term “sex addiction” can be misleading. It often sends people down the wrong path, suggesting that the problem is an overactive libido or too much interest in sex. Anyone who works with this issue knows that it’s rarely about sex at all. Like most compulsive behaviours, it’s usually a response to emotional pain. The behaviour is a symptom, not the root of the struggle. This can be hard to see at first, especially when the behaviour causes chaos or hurts relationships. It’
Declan Fitzpatrick
May 10, 20243 min read
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